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Not to talk about the proxy module for lighttpd. I just missed it as I've always used apache with mod_proxy to not have port forwards in my former debian router and after a short question on how to maybe get it into the router I got a PM that said something like "test this binary and keep me posted". It worked like a charm. I only miss a whizard or something that could be used to configure the proxy to one or many servers behind the router c'se I have to replace the config files for lighttpd every time I make an upgrade. (or does anyone have any better way to do this?)
Good luck in the future!